Nov 3, 2021
Is your voice not as strong as you would like it to be? Do you
find yourself bending over backward to please others, while pushing
your own needs and desires to the side? In this LIVE episode of
Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Debra who's venturing back into
the dating world after leaving an 18-year marriage. She is working
on finding her voice and letting go of people-pleasing behaviors so
that she can stop attracting controlling and narcissistic kinds of
men.
EPISODE 217 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:
Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy
Debra
decided to do a live coaching session on the podcast with Kimmy in
order to seek strategies to find her voice and around creating a
dating plan to attract the kind of partner who's right for this
season of her life. Kimmy starts off by acknowledging that finding
your voice and the strength to demand what you deserve is the first
skill to learn to date smarter this time around. If you find
yourself apologizing often (and for no good reason!), consistently
attracting lopsided relationships with narcissists or fixer-uppers
or feeling responsible for the emotions of others, this episode is
for you. Debra shares some insight into the patterns she tends to
fall into in relationships, connecting back to her upbringing as
the middle child seeking approval, validation and praise from her
parents. You'll hear about some of the challenges Debra has
encountered in meeting and dating guys while she determines what
qualities she wants and the ones she wants to avoid. Kimmy stresses
the importance of getting rid of Debra’s ex-husband's hold on her
and ways to set boundaries for her and her family. Kimmy then
shares some tangible strategies of how to raise your self-worth
including the key questions to ask to discern what you want before
considering what someone else wants, the impact of enriching your
social life and the benefits of learning how to just “date” while
not getting attached to the outcome. Listen in at the end where
Kimmy gets Debra (and to her own surprise) to find her voice right
here on this episode!
If this show resonated with you and you're ready to stop
hiding your voice and date with confidence, get in touch with Kimmy
and book a time to talk here:
https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And,
if you are getting back out there in the dating world later in life
and want to learn how to date to attract the right partner, feel
desirable and flirt and have fun, you can put your name down now to
attend Kimmy's new program, How to Date in Your 40s, 50s and 60s!
It starts November 15 and space is limited! Go
to
askkimmy.com to
ask for more information on how to sign up or go here to
apply
https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/dating-in-your-40s-50s-60s/
EPISODE 217 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:
Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy
The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts,
Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts,
Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making
Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by
Kimmy Seltzer.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating
Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social
intelligence to your life.
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Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma
Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence,
making connections, and finding love from the outside in.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer