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Jul 14, 2023

Are you an over-thinker and a little analytical in nature?  The last time you were on a date, did you feel present and playful or distant and disconnected?  Overthinking, difficulty expressing emotions, and an outcome-oriented mindset are just a few of the challenges that left-brained analytical thinkers encounter when it comes to matters of the heart. In this episode of Coaching With Kimmy, you’ll hear honest conversations with Kimmy and real people about their progress on their dating journey.  This week on the show, Kimmy has a candid conversation with Jeff who refers to himself as “Data” (Trekkies will get this reference!). Jeff describes himself as an introvert with a highly technical and military background, who has struggled to make emotional connections with women after two divorces.  If you have a tendency to overthink, resist expressing your emotions, or are outcome-oriented, this conversation is for you. 
EPISODE 304 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Challenges Of Analytical Thinkers:  Coaching With Kimmy 
When you bring this energy to a date, it can result in your date not feeling the chemistry and you finding yourself in the friend zone.  Kimmy begins this episode in reviewing specific mistakes left-brained people often make when dating and how to overcome them.  You'll then hear Jeff talk about how his confidence lives in his professional life and how it doesn't always translate into his personal life. Jeff shares that many of his dates end up feeling like a business interview, and wants to understand how to get to the fun part where he can relax, share his sense of humor and banter back and forth.  Kimmy and Jeff identify the importance of creating a sense of safety in conversation. Jeff vulnerably shares that wounds from his past relationships have impacted his ability to make new connections when dating. Kimmy talks about the impact of experiencing rejection over time and how that can build fear about an uncertain future.  Stay tuned to hear actionable tips from Kimmy about how to chip away at the fear you feel around dating.  Kimmy shares key steps towards building emotional connections connections and instilling a mindset that will reduce fears of rejection. Listen in to hear about how to gamify social interactions so meeting new people can feel fun, light and not burdened by a potential future outcome.
If you are analytical, in your head and an overthinker which all is affecting your dating life, reach out to Kimmy here for a FREE consultation: In just 30 minutes, you can work with Kimmy to map out a plan to find a fulfilling relationship with who loves and understands your unique self. 
EPISODE 304 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Challenges Of Analytical Thinkers:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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