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Jan 27, 2021

Caring for and giving to others selflessly is an incredibly powerful quality. It's a beautiful gift to support and uplift others, but when it comes to finding love, it's important to make sure you're seeking reciprocal relationships so that get your needs met too. This week on the show, Kimmy kicks us off by describing the Top 4 Signs You Might Be an Over-Caretaker. You'll learn that you might be so focused on others that you unintentionally attract people who don't return the love and support you give. In this episode, Kimmy coaches Cindy live to tackle the origins of her tendency to people-please. 
EPISODE 179 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Are You An Over-Caretaker? Coaching With Kimmy
After going through a divorce and a handful of long term relationships, Cindy is ready to step out and find someone who gives her the affection and attention she deserves, and she's working on breaking her habit of over-caretaking. If you have ever felt it's 100% your responsibility to provide everything your loved ones need and want, this episode is for you. Cindy talks through her upbringing, her flirtatious side blossoming as a teenager, and explores how her light may have been dimmed early on. Raised by a giving, selfless mother, Cindy was rewarded for putting herself over others and carries that to this day. Kimmy talks through how these patterns show up in relationships and how we fall into them so easily because they're comfortable and gave us confidence throughout life. When it comes to dating - whether you're in person or online - if you're spending time on dates wondering whether or not you seem interested in your date versus how you feel and offer, you might be exhibiting signs of over-caretaking! And, if you grew up in an environment where feelings were not openly discussed, it can be that much harder to identify and speak those feelings in social interactions. You'll hear several tips around how to approach dates with the goal of making genuine connections and how to lead with curiosity. One major takeaway from this conversation is that there are many different kinds of chemistry! We often default to sexual and physical chemistry, without paying attention to the emotional connection. Kimmy shares some advice on how to lead with finding an emotional chemistry for a slow healthy build. 
If you want to start learning how to focus on yourself more and boost your flirting skills, there's still time to join Kimmy's FREE 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge! Click on the link right here to register. Connect with a group of dynamic, goal-oriented women who are all putting in the time and effort to improve their flirting skills so they can attract a healthy, fulfilling, and reciprocal relationship.
EPISODE 179 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Are You An Over-Caretaker? Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
 The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
 Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
 Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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